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26 April 2023 ‘Listen to your father…and don’t despise your mother.’ Proverbs 23:22 NLT

The Bible’s full of advice for parents and children – ‘Train up a child in the way he should go’ (Proverbs 22:6 NKJV); ‘Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.’ (Ephesians 6:4 NIV); ‘Honour your father and your mother’ (Exodus 20:12 NIV); ‘Listen to your father, who gave you life, and do not despise your mother when she is old.’ (Proverbs 23:22 NIV). If we were brought up in Sunday school classes, we’ll have been told to honour our parents quite a few times. But something that we don’t often take time to acknowledge is that honouring them is a lot harder if they didn’t hold up their end of God’s instructions. Parents are just as human as their children, so sometimes they get it wrong and do things that go against God’s heart for family relationships. Whether we’ve experienced that in big ways, or on a small scale, we’ll know that it can cause varying degrees of hurt. It can be very painful to deal with these things, but it’s important that we take some time to ask God to help us understand the circumstances surrounding the way our family learned to function. If we need to work through some healing and forgiveness, let’s make today the day we start that process, for the sake of our own futures. Whether that means prayer over last week’s argument, or a bigger action like seeking the help of a professional counsellor, God will be with us, ready to restore our hearts and strengthen us.


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The ‘most important’ thing Tuesday 20 February
The breaking process (3) Monday 19 February
The breaking process (2) Sunday 18 February
The breaking process (1) Saturday 17 February
Prepare yourself Friday 16 February
God ideas Thursday 15 February

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